Western culture has handed us an incredibly limited script for what sex is supposed to look like. Shaped by patriarchal norms, the dominant narrative is centred on the penis. This is both socially harmful and biologically inaccurate. Research consistently shows that the majority of women who experience orgasm do so through external clitoral stimulation, not internal penetration. If we define sex as the pursuit of pleasure, then building everything around internal stimulation alone ignores what actually works for most vulva-owners.