Look at Your Vulva. No, Really. Look

The research on this is pretty clear: cis women who have a positive relationship with their genitals report higher self-esteem, better sexual wellbeing, and greater body image satisfaction. Women with poor vulva self-image experience more sexual distress, lower desire and arousal, and more pain during sex. How you speak about and feel about your body, even down to a specific body part, has real, measurable effects on your pleasure and your health.